Wedding palava

Wedding palava

Don’t get caught  up in the mist, so many unpredictable things happens during the wedding planning process, I shouldn’t be writing this now cause as a weddings blogger, I have write and post a lot of articles  concerning   wedding  issues at the start of my career in the wedding industry.

Your wedding experience is a segment on my wedding blog, this is a segment where my audience can actually share their experience about weddings, either before the the wedding or on the wedding day, in this article titled  wedding palava which is a new article under the segment your wedding experience you will be reading the cause of lack of communication between a wedding planner and her client.

avoiding wedding insanity, the wedding planning argument, bridezilla, the wedding insanity are few of my recent related articles available on my BlogSpot.

due to colleague of mine, I’m talking about no other lady than olajumoke  whom recently hint me about a recent  wedding she  actually covered and scenario that took place during the wedding planning process and on the wedding day, it really outrageous so I have no choice but to write this so that you my audience  can read and digest about it, please read this article carefully and think about the message in the article so such issues won’t  happen during your wedding planning process and on your wedding day or after your wedding ceremony.

 anyway, anyhow my name is adebisi ajibade a wedding planner and a wedding blogger of moment weddings and events, as a wedding planner I have planned series of weddings and as a wedding blogger I have also write series of articles about solving wedding related issues.

As a wedding blogger and wedding planner I have realized that  Lack of communications is major causes of wedding issues, either during the wedding planning process or on the wedding day and after the wedding.

few months back, olajumoke  a wedding planner base in apata,ibadan  met atinuke and dickson whom recently got married last month in akure, ondo state, actually she met the wife and later the husband, they  chat and discussed about their wedding planning and the services they want olajumoke to render, but unfortunately they have change of minds  before and after  they make payment,for two months the couple already have change of minds and in the process of their change of minds they forget to inform olajumoke their wedding planner,  just as atinuke and dickson said but which was actually late. because it actually 1week to their wedding before olajumoke was inform.

 olajumoke the wedding planner  have already make a non-refundable part payment to her vendors immediately she was paid by the couple.

the wedding week, which olajumoke  was to collect her balance before the wedding, the groom(dickson) made a declaration  to olajumoke (the wedding planner) that he cannot pay for the services deducted, cause he cannot afford the bills and that is the major reason he decided to remove the services from the wedding package.

For the fact that couple cannot make payment for the services deducted from the wedding package, problem kicks in, olajumoke was short of funds, the wedding financing became an issue and rest of the services in wedding package was flop.

After the wedding the couple refused to pay olajumoke her balance, the couple claim the service olajumoke render was flop, on olajumoke side she claim she was short of funds and that the couple was responsible for that and that result for the poor service she render.

before any payment was made the wedding planner actually  insisted on 95% of the total package before the wedding day and that the couple can make install payment.

Olajumoke the wedding planner was paid 70% of the total package before the wedding, but in the process of the couple changing their mind and not communicating with olajumoke, the couple have approximate the 70% to be 85% of the total package and hoping to balance 15% after the wedding, meanwhile the wedding planner have make advance payment to all the vendors immediately she was paid and that about 1month to the wedding.so due to the poor services the couple refused to balance the wedding planner.   

With the message in the passage I will like to ask some questions.

1.  What do you think olajumoke the wedding planner should do

2.  who do think you is at fault?

3.  What is the way out, should the couple balance the wedding planner or not.