The #PerfectBridesmaids
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Everyone has their role and their place at a wedding with everyone fulfilling a different duty, from guest invitations to ensuring the guests get home safely after the reception. I remember writing an article title #bridesmaid#duties and .#chiefbridesmaid #duties with I got a amazing comments from fans worldwide so that urges me to write this article you about to read now, this amazing article title how to be a perfect bridesmaid.
1. Don’t steal the bride’s thunder:-If you’ve already had your #weddingday, then look back with #happy #memories rather than trying to relive it through your friend’s #bigday. Or, if your day is yet to come, be happy for the #bride and trust that your moment will come #oneday. This is all about the bride, so remember this before you get carried away and steal the limelight. The #perfect #bridesmaid is there to support the #bride, not take her place.
2. Offer emotional support:-
It’s virtually inevitable that the pressure of wedding planning will get to the bride sooner or later, and when this happens, the perfect #bridesmaid will offer #emotional support. Whether that’s a pep talk to spruce up the bride, a shoulder to cry on or some considerate #counseling, every #bride needs a supportive friend in their #bridesmaid.
3. If you haven’t got anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all:-
The perfect bridesmaid will bite her lip when trying on an ugly #bridesmaiddress and keep her opinions to herself. Likewise, when #thebride is rambling away on a tangent, explaining how she wants #cirocat her #drinks #reception and an ice sculptures in the #room, just nod and smile sweetly and let the bride come to her own decisions to avoid offending her. It’s not your #wedding and it’s not your #money, so let her and the #groom make the decisions.
4. Be a personal trainer:-
Every bride wishes to look their best on their big #day. Don’t be the devil on the #bride’s shoulder, #eating #pastries and ice cream, when you could instead support her in her pursuit of #weightloss, toning up or improving #wellness. Having someone to exercise or start a new diet with is easier than going it alone. So, be the #perfectbridesmaid by kicking the bride into gear; why not go to a gym together or suggest trying your hands at some healthy recipes?
It’s virtually inevitable that the pressure of wedding planning will get to the bride sooner or later, and when this happens, the perfect #bridesmaid will offer #emotional support. Whether that’s a pep talk to spruce up the bride, a shoulder to cry on or some considerate #counseling, every #bride needs a supportive friend in their #bridesmaid.
3. If you haven’t got anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all:-
The perfect bridesmaid will bite her lip when trying on an ugly #bridesmaiddress and keep her opinions to herself. Likewise, when #thebride is rambling away on a tangent, explaining how she wants #cirocat her #drinks #reception and an ice sculptures in the #room, just nod and smile sweetly and let the bride come to her own decisions to avoid offending her. It’s not your #wedding and it’s not your #money, so let her and the #groom make the decisions.
4. Be a personal trainer:-
Every bride wishes to look their best on their big #day. Don’t be the devil on the #bride’s shoulder, #eating #pastries and ice cream, when you could instead support her in her pursuit of #weightloss, toning up or improving #wellness. Having someone to exercise or start a new diet with is easier than going it alone. So, be the #perfectbridesmaid by kicking the bride into gear; why not go to a gym together or suggest trying your hands at some healthy recipes?
The bride has enough on her plate without having to worry about her loved ones falling out. Pre-wedding, there are lots of opportunities for arguments or disputes, as excitement and nerves will be flying high and the pressure of the looming big day endures. But in order to be the perfect #bridesmaid, you must firstly avoid any quarrels by being placid at all times, and also try your best to resolve any potential fallouts between others.
6. Know the bride:-
The #weddingplanning process, the #bridalshower and the #weddingday itself all need to reflect the #bride and her personality. As a bridesmaid it’s vital to know your bride, her likes and dislikes. Is she a fan of #surprises? Does she hate the #spotlight? Ensure you #arrange any #bridalshowers, wedding day extras to suit the bride’s #tastes perfectly.
7. Be positive:-
The #perfectbridesmaid should always strive to make the best of a bad #situation. ‘Where there’s a will, there’s a way’ and ‘don’t sweat the small stuff’ should be the mottos for any perfect bridesmaid. Being able to think on your feet and offer solutions to less than ideal situations is what separates an adequate bridesmaid from a great one. If the bride is in floods of tears over a cancelled vendor or a typo on the wedding invitations, don’t panic with her. Instead, remind her of the bigger picture of what her wedding is about.
8. Respect the chief bridesmaid:-
Maybe you’re bitter that you weren’t chosen to be the #bride’s #chiefbridesmaid , or maybe you just don’t like being told what to do. But, like point five, you should always keep the peace for the bride’s sake. Remember, it’s nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice.
9. Initiate wedding breaks:-
Planning a wedding can be like getting sucked into a vortex of swatches, vendors and mood boards so it’s important once in a while to break out of this cyclone and step back into the real world. As the perfect bridesmaid you should initiate breaks from all the preparation so the bride stays de-stressed and content, a movie night there, or even a spa day if you can afford it.
10. Be a teacher’s pet:-
When the #bride asks for a favour or gives you a #weddingtask to do, do it straight away. Being a teacher’s pet pays off when it comes to keeping your #bride #happy. No bride wants to find out the day before their #wedding that the buttonholes you promised to order have been forgotten or that the #cake still haven’t been picked up. Don’t ever give the bride the excuse to say she’d have been better off doing a task herself!
Maybe you’re bitter that you weren’t chosen to be the #bride’s #chiefbridesmaid , or maybe you just don’t like being told what to do. But, like point five, you should always keep the peace for the bride’s sake. Remember, it’s nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice.
9. Initiate wedding breaks:-
Planning a wedding can be like getting sucked into a vortex of swatches, vendors and mood boards so it’s important once in a while to break out of this cyclone and step back into the real world. As the perfect bridesmaid you should initiate breaks from all the preparation so the bride stays de-stressed and content, a movie night there, or even a spa day if you can afford it.
10. Be a teacher’s pet:-
When the #bride asks for a favour or gives you a #weddingtask to do, do it straight away. Being a teacher’s pet pays off when it comes to keeping your #bride #happy. No bride wants to find out the day before their #wedding that the buttonholes you promised to order have been forgotten or that the #cake still haven’t been picked up. Don’t ever give the bride the excuse to say she’d have been better off doing a task herself!
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