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your wedding experience :- what do you wish you knew before your wedding day?

still on your wedding experience segment, in this new episode i ask my audience what do you wish you knew before your wedding day?              here are their sage words of wisdom.

1.) choose bridesmaids very wisely.

choose bridesmaids wisely. pick those who know how to put up with you and you know how to put up with in intense situations. they could make the day more stressful or dramatic (alcohol, money, or lack of attention on them). i could not imagine my kids looking at my wedding album and not knowing a bridesmaid, a person who i thought was my closest of close friend. it is not worth the drama. stick to sisters and childhood friends. i got lucky, but many friends did  not. (posted  by ayodele toyin, lagos,via facebook)

2.) and the day of your wedding? you need to eat something.

 “eat breakfast! i was so busy rushing around the morning of my wedding that i didn’t eat anything. by the time i got to the reception at, oh, i was utterly famished, to the point of being lightheaded.  (posted  by sydney, ibadan, via twitter)

3.) tell your photographer what you want in advance.

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give the photographers a list of pictures you want beforehand. you won’t remember all the cute  ideas the day of the wedding. (posted by jessica amadi, jos  via facebook)

4.)  on the big day, make someone your point person.

 i wish i had known that no matter how clear the details of the wedding are on the invitations , almost  everyone will still try to text and call you on the wedding day asking for directions. put a family member or your maid of honor (whoever knows your timeline forwards and backwards) in charge of your phone to keep your stress level down so that you can focus on your big day.  ( posted  by lola, osun, via instagram) 

5.) socialmedia is obviously a big deal, so figure out how to incorporate it — or not — into your wedding.

discuss sharing photos on social media before the wedding, and let your friends and family know whether or not it’s ok with you if they share, or if you would prefer that they don’t.  in this day and age, with everyone posting to instagram, facebook, and twitter, think about it, and discuss ahead of time so there are no hard feelings after the fact. (posted by damilola lawal, ondo, via facebook)

The wedding theme

The wedding theme

How to choose your wedding theme

Going through all my article titles list, this is probably the first I will discussing about wedding theme, I actually wonder why this happens to be my first wedding theme article, despite all the area if I have touched in wedding planning with my articles.  

Choosing a wedding theme involves considering a few factors. Things like you and your partner’s personalities and tastes, as well as the vibe and mood you want to create for your special day.

Consider the below questions to help you choose a wedding theme that reflects you and your partner’s personalities in the most perfect way.

What is your favourite colour?

Choosing a wedding theme colour will really help you to choose an overall wedding theme.

Think about some of your favourite colours and what styles of weddings they are typically used in. For example, white, gold, silver and black are classic colours that are often used in traditional and luxe weddings.

Similarly, colours like navy blue and silver are often used in elegant contemporary style weddings.

Every primary colour and combination can be reworked and used in various shades, so if you’ve dreamed of a purple-themed wedding but can’t make violet work, you could always opt for a pastel shade of lavender.

When will your wedding take place?

Just as I have say in my past article the wedding season, truly everything as a season, the period you wish to have your wedding should also determined your wedding theme.

What is your dress like?

Many people do this the other way around – they choose a wedding theme and location, then they choose a dress to match. But, if you’re the opposite in this scenario, then use the style of your dress to choose your ultimate wedding theme.

If you’ve picked your dress already, or, you know what style of dress you are looking for, consider the elements and aesthetic of the dress.  Is it delicate and whimsical? (Perfect for a luxury   wedding.) Or is it modern and minimalist, with clean lines and edges? Or, perhaps it’s a full princess ballgown with plenty of lace and embellishment?

Use the style of your dress to guide you when choosing your wedding theme.

Where will your wedding be held?

Think about your venue – and then consider what colours will suit it.

use your wedding venue as a springboard for inspiration. Is it a hall, field, compound wedding? Use the surroundings of your venue to inspire your wedding theme, and consider what natural elements work as a good foundation for your wedding styling.

Create a moodboard

Another great way to hone in what kind of wedding theme you want is by creating a moodboard of images that you like. You can find images on facebook, Instagram  snapchat, twitter  or even the moment  Weddings’  pages.

Once you’ve collated a bunch of images that you like, save them all on your gadget,  Seeing all the images together will help you to decipher what kind of styles and colours you naturally lean towards.

On Becoming

On Becoming

As this article title implies (on becoming) so many fans of toke makinwa will probably be thinking  this is a reflection of toke makinwa, but no, this article you are reading comprises of a bride and bridesmaid to be, to me that is #onbecoming.  

Before the basic, lets take a few lines to honour  #tokemakinwa,

I really like her ego, with her recent outburst, she now hold the entertainment industry in her palm, I thank God for the good spirit in her,I give it all to her (#toke #makinwa) she is really good, I like her courage,  she is really full of more to talk about.

 Although, I’m yet to read her book (#onbecoming)  but with the little marketing and branding she have delivered on social medias I give it all to her, in my little aspect or knowledge about this article you are reading, (on becoming)by no other guru in the #weddingindustry,

I’m talking about no other person than  #adebisiajibade.    

I adebisi ajibade of moment weddings and events, have being dashing out great tips and advice concerning wedding planning issues through my article writing ego, most of my past articles which are all available on my weddings pages like (instagram,twitter,facebook and my blogspot) have gone along way by helping  most brides in planning their own wedding.

In this article #onbecoming I will be taking a tour on few of my past articles and how it can be helpful to you all as my audience and a bride to be, I mean before you become the bride you wish to be, so you won’t end up being a (#bridezilla) which is was the titled of my past article.

Once you are engage I will advice you to read some my past  articles which are  (#myweddingproposal)   (#weddingplanner),#(weddingplannersarecreative) (#weddingplannersarenotjobless) (the #weddinginvitations), (the #weddingstationery) which will be helpful to you during your wedding planning process.

 (#AGM #amgettingmarried), (#weddingisnotexpensive) (#whoshouldpayforthewedding) are another article  that are available for wedding budget matters.

Before you get you wedding gown it will be nice to read (13 questions to ask before you book your #weddinggown)

(#10 #weddingdress mistake most brides makes)

(#theweddinggownafterthewedding).

Have you ever wonder how to choose your #bridesmaids and (#maidofhonors)  among all your friends, relatives, my candid  advice on this is to read my past article concerning bridesmaids related issues like ( #willyoubemybridesmaid)  (#bridesmaidzilla)  (#theperfectbridesmaid) (#bridesmaidduties ) (#MOH #MAIDOFHONOR #DUTIES).

In terms of wedding cake you need to check out my words in my past articles titled (#beforeyoubookweddingcake), my (#weddingcake).

By the time you read (#5 ways to stay #comfortable on your #weddingday), (the best decision i made during my #weddingplanning process), (#stresslessweddingplanningtools), you will see wedding planning in a new dimension, when you digest on more of my articles and read (#theweddingday) you will have full knowledge on what to do after your #proposal till your wedding day.

As a wedding planner i have realize so much  unexpected occurs during wedding planning journey and on the wedding day, that is the reason why I have I stress myself to write and post my articles titled (#theweddinginsanity), (#avoidingweddinginsanity) (#theweddingplanning argument most #couple do have) (the wedding #planb).

(#Weddingdilemass), (#weddingpalava)  are actually not left out, cause they are great article and a must read for you before your #onbecoming.

Hi dear, take it or leave it your wedding guests are important just as you are, (#weddingguests list and sitting arrangement)  (things guests hate about weddings)   is actually the right article for you read  if only you want to treat your  guests right on your #onbecoming.

Yes guests won’t be so much satisfy   without adequate drinks and foods so that is the reason why I have dash out this article titled (hot questions to ask your #wedding #caterer)

(#Theweddingcaterer #FQA).

Satisfying your guests and stay happy on your wedding day as no end,  (the #weddingdecoration #trendingstyle ) (it your wedding create your style) are a must read for you on your #onbecoming.

Every events as a season and wedding is not also left out, my article (the #weddingseason) relieve the best season to have wedding, and the wedding venue actually matters,it not advice able to have a compound or field wedding during the rainy season, many brides do this without knowing the consequences and shit happens during the during ceremony due to weather, so that is why I have dash out great article titled (#theweddingvenue).

Do you really think all this should happen without no records, please it a capital NO, spending  huge cash on keeping the records of your wedding is actually not a bad thing but your wedding budget actually matters, that is why my article titled (#theweddingbudget the #photographer concerning) is actually a must read for you and your  #onbecoming groom.

 You shouldn’t  depend on your photographer alone let your wedding guests also share their on experience about your wedding so you should create your wedding hashtag, but before you do that check out my words in my article titled (the #weddinghashtag) available on my weddings pages.

 This is my own #onbecoming, I mean this is my own #onbecoming a wedding blogger,a wedding planner, I believe this short article will also help you on your #onbecoming the bride you wish to be.

bridesmaidzilla

10 signs your bridesmaid is a bridesmaidzilla

This article bridesmaidzilla  as being tailored from my past article titled bridezilla so this article you about reading is like a continuous part of bridezilla.

 the  article bridezilla was composure of the behavior of brides during their wedding planning process and on their wedding day, in the article i outline the solution to different issues arising with different brides attitudes.

On the 5^th of december 2016,as at 9pm, after rereading the article bridezilla,and thinking about what my recent bride told me about 3of her bridesmaids and how they almost ruin her emotions during the wedding planning journey and on the wedding day, so i decided to write and post an article that will outline the key point of a bridesmaidzilla.

Just as i have write and posted and i hope you have read the article bridezilla,bridezilla is a troublesome bride, so this article bridesmaidzilla is a troublesome bridesmaids.

  but although less common, there’s another type of wedding diva that can be equally terrifying… the bridesmaidzilla.

The bridesmaidzilla’s natural habitat is bridal boutiques, dress shops, florists, and wedding expos, however, the bridesmaidzilla will sometimes rear her head long before you step foot into your first of dress fitting…

Here are 10 signs that your bridesmaid is a bridesmaidzilla…

1. She will only try on dresses she has chosen

2. She suggests she should wear white so you can be ‘twinning’

3. She expects you to pay for everything even though she picks very expensive things

4. She expects you to invite people you don’t even know

 “sure, i’ll invite your friend from work and her boyfriend to my wedding even though they are complete strangers and you’ve only known them for less than two-months! What a great idea!”

5. She takes over your dress appointment

6. She doesn’t you want to invite your friends to your bridal party because she doesn’t get along with them.

7. She wants to stand out from all the other bridesmaids in every way.

8. She  will show crazy attitude  when you don’t use her ideas.

9. She tries to be the centre of attention at every wedding event.

10. She expects you to be extremely grateful for everything she does, even though all she’s really done is give you stress.

5 of moment Weddings Brides speak candidly about their wedding, your wedding experience.

Still on the segment your wedding experience, in the episode of your wedding experience you will get some perfect tips from 5 brides whom have walk down aisle with so much joy and happiness. It’s always helpful to receive genuine advice from other brides when it comes to your big day. 5 of moment Weddings  Brides speak candidly about their wedding, from what they would do differently, to what advice they have for future brides about to walk down the aisle.

Here are some wedding day tips from recently married Easy Weddings’ brides.

1.)   Enjoy every second, be happy and relax – everything somehow seems to magically fall into place. Enjoy the special moments and don’t worry about your guests too much, they will have FUN!   (oluronke, osun state).

2.)   Have a checklist of who you would like formal group photos with so when that narrow window of time comes round you can ensure no photos are missed.(sandra,delta state).

3.)   I have no regrets, everyone says the day goes so quickly but for me it didn’t. I relaxed, enjoyed every moment. (kemi,Ibadan).

4.)              10 minutes walking around getting some selfies with our guests. I’m usually not a selfie person but an occasion like this calls for it. (omolara, ekiti state).

5.)    Not try to do it yourself  so much! It’s stressful and may not always be cost efficient. (temmy, lagos state).